A garden won’t grow whatever we happen to want. Plant tomato seeds, and you won’t get cucumbers. Our minds and our lives work the same way. If you constantly put yourself down, dwell on what’s wrong, and surround yourself with negative people and low energy, you can’t expect a wonderful, positive life to appear by magic. What you plant is what grows.
Creating a more positive life starts with how we speak to ourselves. Be kind to yourself, even when you make a mistake. Did you learn something from it? Then keep going.
We also need to change how we think about ourselves and other people. Step away from self-righteousness and judgment; it isn’t your job to judge others. And let’s be honest: when you judge and criticize someone else, you turn that same judgment on yourself.
The people around you matter, too. If they bring you down, dwell on the negative, and carry low energy, it may be time to choose different company. How we speak, how we think, and who we surround ourselves with are all part of the daily work of free will. This is creating reality at its best.
We become what we identify with, whether it’s a thought, a feeling, or an action. That identification draws similar people, events, and situations into our lives. There’s a reason people say money attracts money and attractive people gravitate toward one another. Like attracts like. That’s the law at work here. You can complain about it, or you can become what you want to be.
To do that, you need to believe in yourself and trust that what you want is possible. We create our lives, beginning with how we see them. If you believe opportunities are scarce and life is hard and unfair, that’s the reality you will experience. But if you believe in abundance and opportunity, they will become part of your life.
This means holding an image in your mind, even if it feels almost imaginary. We need a vision, perhaps even one that seems a little unrealistic. Everything is imaginary until it becomes real. Ultimately, creating reality comes down to free will.
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