Why Do We Keep Chasing Certainty? | The Truth Hurts, Episode 21

Episode 21 · August 17, 2023


Episode notes

About this episode

We’ve all heard some version of the line, “The only thing that’s certain is death.” But if death is the one certainty, why the hell do we spend so much of our lives searching for certainty at work, in love, within our families, and in every other relationship?

We search for it because we’ve been taught that life requires it. In this episode, Gili and Tal consider what our need for certainty does to us and what might open up when we learn to live with the unknown.

Listen in and find out how it’s done.

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What we explore

Gili and Tal consider how certainty affects our lives, how we respond to change and uncertainty, and the role of mental flexibility. They explore what certainty and uncertainty each bring, and how practical tools can help us face both in everyday life.

A spiritual perspective on certainty and uncertainty

Their conversation unfolds in six parts:

  1. Why we need certainty. Why we seek it, how certainty affects our lives, and where we look for it most often: at work, in romantic relationships, and within the family.
  2. What uncertainty can offer. The benefits and drawbacks of living with the unknown, including how it can build personal strength and support growth.
  3. Questions for deeper self-understanding. What draws us toward certainty? How do we respond to change and uncertainty?
  4. Practical tools for uncertainty. Ways to face it, make good use of it, and bring these tools into daily life as circumstances change.
  5. A change in perspective. How uncertainty can become an opportunity for growth, and how changes within us can shape what happens around us.
  6. The tips segment. Ideas for living with both certainty and uncertainty, including tools you can use now and continue developing over time.

About the podcast

Listening to The Truth Hurts feels like sitting in on a healing session.

The truth can hurt. It’s right there in the name. But we’re not here to cause pain. Quite the opposite.

In each episode, two women sit down for an honest conversation: an Emotional Healer and her client.

We talk about healing and consciousness, faith and science, the body and soul, personal growth, energy, and different approaches to healing. Above all, we face the truth no one says out loud: everything around us is upside down.

Is this podcast for you?

  • You want to hear the truth, and you’re ready to face it. (Yes, those are two different things.)
  • You want to gain insight and improve your quality of life.
  • You want to make a change.
  • You want a deeper understanding of the laws of the universe.
  • You want to live a healthy life in body and soul.
  • You want to take away something you can carry with you for life.

You don’t need any prior knowledge. You only need the desire to explore a wide range of ideas and discover practical guidance for living.

Listen and get in touch

Gili Man Wolner, Emotional Healer. Helping you heal and grow through Jewish wisdom.

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